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AFP Africa (May 3, 2005) - 5/7/05

NEWS 'Aisle be back' says runaway bride Posted Tue, 03 May 2005 When American bride-to-be Jennifer Wilbanks got cold feet, she didn't just jilt her prospective groom — she also left concerned TV viewers nursing feelings of betrayal. Wilbanks (32) went missing after going jogging in Duluth, Georgia, last week, thrusting her family and fiance John Mason into a media maelstrom. A weekend of runaway-bride television coverage offered a kind of emotional turmoil last seen in March with the death of Terri Schiavo, the brain-damaged Florida woman caught in a right-to-die drama. As life imitated Hollywood, comparisons were soon drawn with the 1999 film 'The Runaway Bride,' starring Julia Roberts and Richard Gere. Wilbanks finally surfaced in Albuquerque, New Mexico, after sparking a nationwide search when she hopped on a Greyhound bus to Las Vegas, spooked by fairytale nuptials featuring 600 guests and 14 bridesmaids. At first she told police she had been kidnapped — but she later admitted she had faked her abduction and cut her hair to disguise her identity. On Saturday, the day she was to have walked down the aisle, Wilbanks was instead marched by police through an airport, with a striped towel — rather than a veil — over her head. Soon, the tone of media turned from sympathy to vengeance towards the young woman, who in the words of one network reporter "sucked in a community and police." There goes the bride! By Monday morning, as Wilbanks eyed up to five years in jail, CNN's 'American Morning' asked its viewers to respond by email about "what should happen to Jennifer Wilbanks, the runaway bride." On MSNBC, 85 percent of the more than 1000 respondents to an online poll said Wilbanks should face charges. Media coverage of the affair is "amazing, crazy," said Rachel Safier, a runaway bride who had second thoughts and turned her agony into a book and a website for jilters and the jilted, www.theregoesthebride.com. Wilbanks probably fell prey to huge expectations and should not face police action, said Safier, who spoke to AFP by telephone from a limousine on the way to a television appearance. "The wedding industry is so crazy, I can only imagine what this woman is going through," she said, adding that talk of police action was "out of proportion. "This woman needs help," Safier said. Some couples joke about how marriage has handcuffed them, but for Wilbanks on Monday morning, the threat of arrest appeared real. "At some point, there has to be some consequence, but I just don't know what that is," Gwinnett County District Attorney Danny Porter told CNN. Possible charges include reporting a crime that did not take place, and Wilbanks could be called to account for a massive nationwide police search. Aisle be back? The fate of Wilbanks's dream wedding, meanwhile, was unclear after she reportedly issued a statement to reporters which said the wedding had just been postponed, not called off. Speculation mounted over Wilbanks's next move, with rumours flying over a possible appearance before the cameras, as bookers for top news shows no doubt descended like vultures. But will the real-life story have a traditional Hollywood happy ending? Stay tuned. AFP

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There Goes
The Bride


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2003).
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